How do you practice? (Toronto Singh's Camp, Final)
“I have been searching for the Saints; I have seen so many Holy and Spiritual people.
The hermits, Sannyaasees, asctics, penitents, fanatics, and Pandits all speak sweetly.
I wandered around lost for a year, but no one touched my soul.
I listened to preachers and teachers, but I could not be happy with their lifestyles.
Those who have abandoned the Lord’s name, and become attached to Duality - why should I speak in praise of them?
So speaks Bhikhaa: the lord has led me to meet the Guru. As you keep me, I remain; as you protect me, I survive.” SGGS
I know this may be hard to believe but until I went to camp I had never stepped foot in Darbar Sahib. No Gurdwara near me and no other Sikhs in my area made my Sikh practice was very personal.
I often thought to myself that I was doing it wrong or I was missing a message somewhere. The one thing I did have was a couple of years of studying without the weight of religious politics and million different points of view. it allowed me to find my feet and foundation before setting off into the world.
The first night of camp everyone was busy getting the Darbar Sahib put together, you could see the care and intent on everyone’s eyes as they were working. When it was finished…I mean it was beautiful! Guru was coming and I was clueless as to what to do, how to act…It was complete sensory overload. The kind you see in the movies where time slows down and vision gets fuzzy. I vaguely remember being present for Guru’s arrival.
I went back to my room and changed clothes if I remember correctly after Guru’s arrival. Somewhere along the line I ended up back at Darbar Sahib and there was this beautiful music playing, washed my feet and hands and walked into the Darbar…I was stuck…couldn’t move hardly. I had watched live feeds on the internet and thought for sure I knew how to act but in the presence of Guru I couldn’t remember how to Matha Tteykna. I knew I was supposed to, honestly did but I was at a total loss. I walked a little further and Mandeep was standing there. I looked at him and remember asking him what to do…I heard him say approach and then give me some hand gestures and I walked forward to the Guru, I was intimidated and at peace all at the same time. I performed a Matha Tteykna and took a seat in the back of the Darbar Sahib. What an awesome experience!
You can listen to Kirtan all you want on the internet but it will never hold a candle to being in Darbar and feeling it in person. Yes I said feeling it, not listening to it. I listened to it on the computer semi regularly before camp but the first time I experienced it in person it was life changing. That’s not an exaggeration, to hear the music and the extraordinary voices being performed with such conviction was an experience I’ll never forget and hope I’ll be able to find again. I was standing outside the Langar hall one morning and the kitchen window was open…Kirtan was playing in the kitchen and all I could think was how beautiful is that! These men are doing Sewa and llistening to Kirtan…what a blessing.
Speaking of Sewa, I’m not sure what my expectations were or what anyone else’s expectations were of me. What I did learn was Sewa is a lot more than just volunteering. I have volunteered all of my life and there is always some sort of self satisfaction but when I was with the Singhs it was a completely different experience. It' wasn’t about me at all, it wasn’t work at all, it just was. Wasn’t me at all.
I say all of this to say…I found my faith and started building a new practice based on what I knew and what I learned. Individual faith is an evolutionary process and in my experience will change and develop over time. What my practice was before camp is not my practice now and my practice now won’t be what my practice will be a year from now. As we learn we grow and friends…I have grown.